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Welcome Home! Fall 2020

We’re celebrating with our Wisconsin and Illinois families as they grow!

Best wishes to Ben and Annie, and their son Matthew, who was born in November through our domestic program.

 

Sweet Claire was born in February through our domestic program and is already enjoying adventures with her parents Justin and Samantha.

 

Elliott was welcomed home by brother Gavin and parents Nathan and Kimberly in February through our interstate program.

 

Proud parents David and Christina welcomed home their daughter Raelynn in March through our interstate program.

 

Congratulations to Tom and Tina on the arrival of their daughter Michaela, who was born in March and placed through our interstate program. She joins proud big sister Adeline.

 

Elated big sister Ella and parents Maggie and Bill celebrated the arrival of Will, who was born in March through our domestic program.

 

Enoch and Katie welcomed their son Jonathan in May who was placed through our domestic program. May the force be with you!

 

In June, Rebekah and Oscar joyfully welcomed their daughter Elena, placed through our domestic program.

 

Matt and Kate delight in their daughter Ella, placed into their family in July through our domestic program.

 

Overjoyed parents Steve and Meghan finalized the adoption of their son Grady through our domestic program in July.

Congratulations to all our families!

For more information about Holt’s International Adoption Programs, click here.

For more information about Domestic Adoption, visit our website.

If you are pregnant and want to speak to one of our options counselors, please call 800-Baby-Mom 24/7.

Empowering Women: The Key to Strengthening Families

For many women, impending motherhood is a momentous event, often filled with laughter, joy, baby showers, nursery decorating, and bright hopes for the future.

But for women going through tough times who don’t have family or friends to support them, being a mother can be incredibly overwhelming — just to get through each day. They don’t think they can take care of themselves, much less their children. And sometimes, to give both their child and themselves the best chance to survive and thrive, they make the decision to place one or more of their children for adoption — even if they don’t really want to.

Over her 30 years’ of experience in social services, eight of them with Holt International, Nancy Crouch has seen more than her share of heartbroken mothers, sitting in her office in tears, facing this same dilemma. And as the director for domestic adoption and birth parents services at Holt-Sunny Ridge, Holt International’s Illinois and Wisconsin branch, Nancy is in the position to help empower these women and change their lives.

Holt-Sunny Ridge aims to change women’s lives through empowerment

“Providing hope to others has really become my life’s work,” Nancy says, “starting with empowering women — helping them learn the tools to become self-sufficient and to keep their family together. Giving them hope that things will improve in their lives, that they will have more self-esteem and feel capable of taking care of themselves and their children.”

Through her work, Nancy helps mothers who want to place their children for adoption to find peace in their decision. She also helps them cope with the grief and loss associated with adoption. But mostly, she tries to help women see that adoption isn’t the only option they have — that they can learn to take care of themselves and their children on their own.

This idea is the seed behind Holt-Sunny Ridge’s “Empowering Women, Strengthening Families” (EWSF) Program. According to Nancy, mothers who came to us who were considering adoption for their children are in crisis mode. They’re often out of work, homeless and alone. They don’t have family or friends or any form of support in place to help them.

Through a generous foundation grant, Nancy and her team were able to start EWSF. The fund is used to help struggling mothers and their children by providing everything from housing, food and transportation to childcare and clothing until they can get on their feet.

More importantly, the EWSF fund helps women become self-sufficient and able to independently parent their children through a range of programs. These programs include therapy and counseling, as well as workshops covering a wide array of topics, from career development to personal finance, from nutrition and healthy lifestyles to developing healthy relationships. The program takes a holistic approach to empowering women and paving a way for them to find success in their lives.

The EWSF program has provided services to mothers in crisis for over two years, with plans to grow as new partnerships form — providing additional funding and support through volunteerism. Nancy said there are many ways that corporations and organizations can get involved. One way involves teaching EWSF participants the nitty-gritty details of personal finance.

“Mainly, we teach our moms basic budgeting and opening a checking and savings account,” shares Nancy. “But some of our moms are ready for a higher level. They really want to analyze and build their credit, so they need more one-on-one support. They may want to learn about different types of savings programs and other ways to gain financial progress. We’re hoping to have volunteers with expertise in this area to be able to help them one on one with learning about different ways to manage finances.”

Empowering women does change lives

Nancy emphasizes that the EWSF program is structured to teach participants the life skills they need to have long-term success, not just offer short-term solutions. And through the program, Nancy has seen many women’s lives change for the better.

Nina, a single mom to three children, joined the EWSF program in March, 2018. Nina had a traumatic past, losing her mom at birth and growing up in a dangerous downtown Chicago neighborhood. Despite her difficulties growing up and having to raise two kids on her own, Nina managed to graduate high school and start her own party-planning business.

Things came to a breaking point shortly after she gave birth to her third child. Her cousin was shot and killed right on her front porch, forcing Nina to move her family to a quieter suburban neighborhood. However, the move put a stop to her business and took her away from her family. The pressures of having to provide for her children and herself without any income or family support made Nina desperate. It came to the point where she considered placing all three of her kids for adoption.

That’s when she learned about Holt-Sunny Ridge and the EWSF program. Through EWSF and the consistent help of a Holt-Sunny Ridge social worker, Nina saw that her situation wasn’t hopeless. With counseling and guidance, she slowly got back on her feet. The program helped cover childcare and provided tools she needed. By the time she graduated from the program in September, 2018, Nina had more self-esteem as a woman and as a parent, and she returned to her business with more skills to help her succeed.

As of this writing, Nina has a growing events-planning business, with her own office space and employees. She’s renting an apartment, has her own car, and is taking college courses. More importantly, she’s emotionally stable and feels more capable of successfully parenting and providing for her kids. Additionally, Nina gives back to Holt-Sunny Ridge by volunteering as a mentor for other moms in the EWSF program.

“What we’re trying to do is to remove all the barriers so that women can succeed,” says Nancy. “We’re looking to give women long-term solutions and tools to continue with their success.”

To learn about EWSF eligibility or to make a referral to the program, please contact Loann at loannt@holtusa.org.

 

 

Originally published by Linda Wilson on Nov 12, 2019

 

 

“My favorite part is holding and snuggling the babies!”

These Wisconsin families provide loving temporary care homes for babies awaiting permanent adoption placement

Occasionally newborns stay with one of our licensed temporary care families briefly before joining their families. Two Wisconsin families share their stories about why they became temporary care homes and what they love most about caring for the babies.

Meet Lucy

Who are the family members living at home?

I share my home with my dog Lewey.

What inspired you to become a temporary care home?

I have always loved babies and caring for them. I worked for 27 years in the school system helping children with fine motor skills. Being retired now allows me to stay home to help babies by taking care of them until they are placed in a new loving home.

How long have you been a temporary care home?

I have been a temporary caregiver for six years and have cared for nine sweet babies during that time.

What is your favorite part of helping the babies?

My favorite part of being a temporary caregiver is holding and snuggling with the babies. It also warms my heart to see the look on the parents’ faces when they see and hold their baby for the first time. It’s always a pleasure to continue to see my little ones and how they have grown and changed after they move on to their new home. Some I see in person, some by Facebook, emailed pictures, or a photo in a Christmas card. I always enjoy seeing them.

Meet Pete and Deb

Pete & Deb experienced years of infertility and know first hand how much every baby is wanted.  Deb also serves on the board of the local pregnancy resource center and has a heart for birth moms.  They long to provide a safe haven for the baby while the birth parents make decisions and adoptive parents wait, and for all to visit.

What inspired you to become a temporary care home?

We strongly believe God uses our past to prepare us for what He has for us in the future. Deb has 2 sets of cousins that were adopted.  Both joined her family when the babies were several months old. She always thought what an amazing job that would be to care for babies awaiting adoption.

How long have you been a temporary care home?

We were a temporary care home for 3 years.  We stepped down for a while to care for our grandchildren and are now back.

What is your favorite part of helping the babies?

Deb loves babies!  Her favorite part is holding & rocking them.  Ultimately, the best part is to see each baby grow up in a loving, nurturing home.

Do you have a special memory or story about one of the babies who was in your care?

We have cared for 7 babies. Each one is special and will always be in our hearts!  We have a wall with their pictures in our home.

Thank you, Lucy, Pete & Deb for providing loving care for the babies awaiting placement.

Welcome Home! Summer 2020

We’re thrilled to introduce our newest Holt-Sunny Ridge families from Illinois and Wisconsin!

Congratulations to Matt and Jen on the arrival of their son Charlie, who was born through our domestic program in August 2019.
Ron and Heather were thrilled to welcome Franci home in August. She was placed through Holt’s China program.
Congratulations to Guy and Michelle who finalized adoption of their granddaughter Hailey in October.
In November, Nikki and Ryan were excited to share the joy of the finalization of their son Griffin’s adoption with Holt staff Tracey and Val.
Twins Jack and Jace were born in December 2019 through our interstate program. Their parents Kristina and Joe welcomed them home, along with siblings James and Reyna.
James and Sanah brought their son Sakin home from Morocco in January 2020. He joins proud big sis Sarinah.

Jesse and Mandy joyfully welcomed their son Bo In January through our interstate program. He joins siblings Brett, Carolyn, Brock, Noah and Hunter.
Mila joined her delighted parents Kevin and Sheree in February through our domestic program.

Proud Parents, Angie and Theron, and big sister, Ava, were thrilled to finalize Oliver’s domestic adoption in March.

Congratulations to all our families!

For more information about Holt’s International Adoption Programs, click here.

For more information about Domestic Adoption, visit our website.

 

 

 

Talk About It: Resources to help you talk to your kids about race

With headlines flooding our news feed, now is a good time to connect as a family to discuss race.

We’ve gathered several useful resources to help facilitate age-appropriate conversations:

Parents, here are 20 resources tailored for all ages, from toddlers to teens.

CNN recently partnered with “Sesame Street” for Coming Together: Standing Up to Racism, a town hall for kids and families to watch together.

 

There many books that discuss race, and diversity. We’re highlighting a few reading lists:

 

 

At Holt-Sunny Ridge we proudly celebrate diversity among our families and hope these resources offer support to adoptive parents as they talk to their child(ren) about race.

 

Celebrating Pride Month

Even if your family is staying home and socially distancing, there are many ways to celebrate Pride Month virtually!

Click here for 35 ways your family can celebrate, including links to virtual events, history, and books.
If your family is looking for more ways to advocate, check out these ideas.
This sweet children’s book Love Makes a Family celebrates all families.

Check out this great guide for same-sex parents: Journey to Same-Sex Parenthood.

 

 

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